Mom Plus Dad Equals Me

Mom plus Dad equals me. Even though our rate of scientific and technological advancement is mind-boggling, this biological fact holds universally true for our species. Until humans are able to create a sperm and egg from scratch, their continuing existence is integrally dependent upon this physiological combination regardless of whatever high-tech procedures are employed to induce it. Every human is the product of male and female conjugation, and what happens after that is humanity. The most intimate human relationship is maternal, for it is from that womb we are born. Until birth there is no independent choice for mother or child; the relationship is unconditional for both. It is the male that is free from the moment of conception to decide what his role will be. Psychoanalysis did not invent--but does articulate--the critical influence of parents upon developing offspring. The two most significant people in my life are Mom and Dad; they always have been, and that's why any examination of the people who have affected my life must begin with them.